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Checklists, plain-language guides and the organisations we point people to.
Everything here is general information. It is not legal advice and it is not a substitute for advice about your own situation.
Guides & checklists
Downloadable, and written for humans.
Plain-language guides for families in California. Read them here, or download a PDF to print, fill in or share.
Adoption document checklist
Every document California adoptions ask for, by type of adoption, with who issues it and how long it takes.
PDF · 4 pages · 387 KB
Stepparent adoption guide
The most common adoption we file, start to finish, in plain language.
PDF · 4 pages · 310 KB
Hospital plan template
A fillable plan for expectant parents to set out their wishes for the birth and the days around it.
PDF · 3 pages · 302 KB · fillable form
Kinship caregiver guide
Guardianship, custody and adoption compared, for relatives already raising a child.
PDF · 3 pages · 382 KB
What to expect at finalisation
What happens in the courtroom, who attends, what to wear and what to bring.
PDF · 3 pages · 282 KB
After the decree
Birth certificates, benefits, insurance, wills, passports and records.
PDF · 3 pages · 327 KB
Glossary
Adoption and family law, translated.
The terms that appear in your paperwork, in ordinary English.
- Adoption assistance / subsidy
- Ongoing financial and medical support for a child adopted from foster care who meets the special-needs criteria of California’s Adoption Assistance Program (Cal. Welf. & Inst. Code § 16115 and following). Agreed before finalisation.
- Consent to adoption
- The formal document by which a legal parent agrees to the adoption. Its timing, witnessing and revocability are set by statute.
- Decree of adoption
- The court order that creates the legal parent-child relationship. The end point of the process.
- De facto parent
- Someone who has functioned as a child’s parent. In California, a person the juvenile court recognises as a de facto parent may take part in the child’s dependency proceedings (Cal. Rules of Court, rule 5.534).
- Diligent search
- The documented effort to locate a parent whose whereabouts are unknown, required before a court will permit notice by publication.
- Guardian ad litem (GAL)
- A person appointed by the court to represent the child’s best interests in the proceeding.
- Home study
- The written assessment of a prospective adoptive home, covering background checks, finances, health, references and interviews.
- ICPC
- Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children. Governs placements across state lines; both states must approve before the child travels.
- ICWA
- Indian Child Welfare Act. Federal law imposing extra notice, placement preference and evidentiary requirements where a child is a member of, or eligible for membership in, a federally recognised tribe.
- Open adoption
- An adoption in which some contact or information exchange continues between the birth family and the adoptive family.
- Post-adoption contact agreement (PACA)
- A written agreement about ongoing contact after adoption. In California it is enforceable only if the court approved it (Cal. Fam. Code § 8616.5).
- Putative father
- A man who may be the biological father but is not a legal or presumed father. California has no putative father registry; his rights turn on notice and on his commitment to parenting (Cal. Fam. Code § 7664; Adoption of Kelsey S. (1992)).
- Readoption
- A domestic adoption completed after an adoption granted abroad, to secure a state birth certificate and clear domestic recognition.
- Relinquishment / surrender
- A parent’s voluntary release of parental rights, usually to an agency.
- Termination of parental rights (TPR)
- A court order ending a parent’s legal rights and duties. Required before adoption where consent is not given.
- UCCJEA
- Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act. Determines which state’s courts decide a custody dispute.
Organisations
Where else to get help.
Trusted national and California organisations. We link to these resources because families find them helpful; a link is not an endorsement and we receive no payment for referrals.
National information
- National Council for Adoption (NCFA)
- Child Welfare Information Gateway
- North American Council on Adoptable Children (NACAC)
Support for birth parents
- Adoption Support Network / On Your Feet Foundation
- Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline (1-800-422-4453)
- California Department of Social Services (CDSS) Adoption Services Bureau
Foster & kinship care
- California Youth Connection & Foster Care Ombudsperson
- California Kinship Navigator (free, run with the California Department of Social Services)
- California child welfare agency: California Department of Social Services, Adoption Services; locally, the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services
Financial assistance
- Helpusadopt.org
- Show Hope & Gift of Adoption Fund
- Federal adoption tax credit — IRS guidance
Courts & forms
- Los Angeles County family court: Superior Court of California, County of Los Angeles — Family Law (adoptions are heard at the Edmund D. Edelman Children’s Court)
- California self-help centre: California Courts Self-Help Guide: Adoptions
- Vital records / amended certificates: California Department of Public Health — Vital Records adoption process
Crisis & safety
- Emergency services: 911
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (or text START to 88788)
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988
Insights
Notes from the practice.
Short, cited explainers on California adoption law and the questions families ask us most.
Stepparent adoption in Los Angeles County: what actually happens
13 September 2026 · 3 min read
Consent decides most stepparent adoptions. Here is how California handles it, what the investigation involves, and the three mistakes that cause delays.
Read the articleBirth parentsConsent and the 30-day window in California independent adoptions
13 September 2026 · 3 min read
When a birth parent can sign, how long they have to change their mind, and how agency adoptions, birth fathers and Native American children are treated differently.
Read the articleOpen adoptionContact after adoption in California: what an agreement can and cannot do
13 September 2026 · 2 min read
Open adoption is common, but only a court-approved agreement is enforceable. What the law allows, what happens when things go wrong, and how to write an agreement that lasts.
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